“Don’t ever use someone’s past against them. You’re just reminding them of the mistakes they made back then. If you watch their facial expression carefully, then you’ll see the hurt in their eyes as they reminisce everything that happened. Never use emotion as a weapon, it strikes deeper than you can imagine.”—(via hearttmade)
You treat me like shit even when I ask “what’s wrong?” and you answering “nothing”. I’m not always going to be here for you at the rate we’re going. Honestly I’ve gotten so close to you to realize that I’m probably the closest thing you’ve got. I try to see the good in people, optimism is my way of thinking. I’m tired, I’m tired of your immaturity, your self-preference, your ignorance, you constant thought of feeling as though you are the most important being all around.
I mean, dont get me wrong I’ve enjoyed your company, we shared a lot in common, and exchanged laughter. You think you’re the only one going through all of the stress, heartbreak, feeling alone. Look at reality, you’re not the only one, everyone stresses about school, friends, social status, losing the one they fall in love with. That’s why you hold onto your friends, because if you really treat them the way you want to be treated, I guarantee you wont have to go through it all alone. Open your heart, and accept everyones imperfections, insecurities. We can build long lasting friendships. If only you came back to reality and realize that if you want real friends, you need to be real yourself.
Fundamentally, we need to have the right mindset to achieve our most important goal in life. Discipline, time management, knowledge, skill, resolution and all the rest will be fine. The mindset alone will make us easy to get all those. Without mindset, all that we create are fragile. It’s so easy to be broken.